People complain that such a problem is wrong with their hair but that's only the case when you don't know how to take care of it. Shampoo, condition etc
Stuff like this really helps your hair, using the right shampoo for you or having a certain haircut which goes well with you face.
You can learn about face shapes and hair by doing a quick search engine search, also be careful as to what gel you use, take time and read what it says on the tube instead of just commiting the same mistakes everytime.
A friend of mine started having hairloss due to a certain gel he used which was really bad for him, but after stopping it's usage it has helped. When you go for a haircut don't just tell the hairdresser what to do , talk with him get to know hi, discuss things , ask for tips
Having a good relationship with a hairdresser is really good.